Am I Ready?????

Datin Norjuma....I always adore her. Not only she's pretty, have a radiant skin and beautiful eyes & smile but as for me she is a Muslimah role model. At least for me because I don't know how others might judge her.

Enough about my charmed Norjuma....today, my fiance brings me to makan2 session with his famly-I mean not only his famly but also his uncle, auntie and bla...bla...bla... Night before we went to makan2 session, he told me to wear sumthing nice and appropriate. Not to say that I am sexy but nice and appropriate to Asri is Muslimah wear but not baju kurung. Since I don't have any jubah, I wear jeans and long shirt (long shirt in my own words). So, before I step into the car, Asri asked me to turn arround to see whether the shirt is long enough to cover my butt! hehehe...from his face, I know he is not that satisfied, but when I want to change my shirt he said " Xpe2...jom g umah mak long".

To cut short the story....After makan2 session, I take a moment to absorb the surrounding in mak long homey. One thing for sure, all of them are very muslimah (some wear baju kurung and some wear pants and blouse) and none of them are free hair. And worst, I am the only one who wear jeans and shirt (long shirt in my words). For them, long shirt= really cover your butt and if possible must be until knee length!But, since I am not formally part of their famly, they have not say anything to me plus they are all nice people and educated.

On our way back, I asked Asri, how should I wear after we get married? Asri said: "sayang, you need to start wear a proper muslimah dress code like baju kurung and no such things as kebaya or kurung moden, jubah and if you want to wear pants, please don't wear tight pants or jeans and one thing for sure remember your aurat.Wear tudung when you meet with non-muhrim. And no more pants to work, ok sayang?"

Lately after we engaged, Asri change a bit, he shows me that he is capable to bring me to right way and he can be a good leader in our future life soon (Insya'Allah). But as for me, am I ready to let go of my fav jeans? what am I wearing now? and all my shirt? The answer is YES. Once I commit to my relationship, I will fully commited in doing it. Like Asri said to me, both of us will be a different person after we get married and hopefully the changes will be good not only for me and Asri but also for people arround me (Insya'Allah).

Sumtime, we will feels like changes made us a different person. But, if we think that being different is bad and wrong, we will end up know where. Everything is in our mindset and only us

can made our life better!